Some Thoughts On Love, Marriage, & The S-Word...

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I came across a question at a place called DormCheck that asked how two people who had never had sex should do it for the first time.

This is what I wrote and thought that it would be worth posting here as well...

The
best way is to first take out a marriage license; go through some kind
of ceremony (simple, elaborate, or somewhere in-between) where you
pledge your love to each other for a lifetime; and, eventually, go to a
location where you're both comfortable, relax, and begin to explore.

You
don't have to hurry love, because you have a lifetime. Be patient with
each other and with yourselves. Learn to laugh WITH each other and
never AT each other.

Before all of the above happens, however,
get to know each other first (I'm talking of minds and hearts instead
of bodies!), because marriage isn't something to enter into lightly.

You
don't marry somebody in order to have sex with him/her. You marry
somebody because this is the person with whom you want to wake up in
the morning, go through the day, and settle into bed at night--and,
because of this, you want to connect with him/her in this way that is
known as having sex/making love.

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